Wednesday, July 28, 2010

For the Rest of My Life




I praise Allah for sending me you my love
You finally home and sail with me
And I`m here with you
Now let me let you know
You`ve opened my heart
I was always thinking that love was wrong
But everything was changed when you came along oooo..
And theres a couple words I want to say

For the rest of my life
I`ll be with you
I`ll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I`ll be loving you.. loving you

For the rest of my life
Through days and nights
I`ll thank Allah for openin' my eyes
Now and forever I I`ll be there for you

I know it deep in my heart
I feel so blessed when I think of you
And I ask Allah to bless all we do
You`re my wife and my friend and my strength
And I pray we`re together in Jannah
All i know I found myself I feel so strong
Yes everything was changed when you came along ooo
And theres a couple words I want to say

For the rest of my life
I`ll be with you
I`ll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I`ll be loving you.. loving you

For the rest of my life
Through days and nights
I`ll thank Allah for openin' my eyes
Now and forever I.. I`ll be there for you

I know it deep in my heart now that you`re here
Infront of me I strongly feel love
And I have no doubt
And I sing it loud that I`ll love you eternally

For the rest of my life
I`ll be with you
I`ll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I`ll be loving you..loving you
For the rest of my life
Through days and nights
I`ll thank Allah for openin' my eyes
Now and forever I.. I`ll be there for you
I know it deep in my heart


by Maher Zain


I love u sooooo much..

::Airmata Seorang Isteri::





Seorang anak laki-laki kecil bertanya kepada ibunya "Mengapa ibu menangis?"

"Kerana aku seorang wanita", kata sang ibu kepadanya.

"Aku tidak mengerti",kata anak itu.

Ibunya hanya memeluknya dan berkata,
"Dan kau tak akan pernah mengerti"

Kemudian anak laki-laki itu bertanya kepada ayahnya,
"Mengapa ibu suka menangis tanpa alasan?"

"Semua wanita menangis tanpa alasan", hanya itu yang dapat
dikatakan oleh ayahnya.

Anak laki-laki kecil itu pun lalu tumbuh menjadi seorang laki-laki dewasa, tetap ingin tahu mengapa wanita menangis.

Akhirnya ia menghubungi Tuhan, dan ia bertanya, "Tuhan, mengapa wanita begitu mudah menangis?"

Allah berfirman:

"Ketika Aku menciptakan
seorang wanita, ia diharuskan untuk
menjadi seorang yang istimewa. Aku
membuat bahunya cukup kuat untuk
menopang dunia; namun, harus cukup
lembut untuk memberikan kenyamanan "

"Aku memberikannya
kekuatan dari dalam untuk mampu
melahirkan anak dan menerima penolakan
yang seringkali datang dari anak-anaknya "

"Aku memberinya
kekerasan untuk membuatnya tetap tegar
ketika orang-orang lain menyerah, dan
mengasuh keluarganya dengan penderitaan
dan kelelahan tanpa mengeluh "

"Aku memberinya kepekaan
untuk mencintai anak-anaknya dalam
setiap keadaan, bahkan ketika anaknya
bersikap sangat menyakiti hatinya "

"Aku memberinya kekuatan
untuk mendukung suaminya dalam
kegagalannya dan melengkapi dengan
tulang rusuk suaminya untuk melindungi
hatinya "

"Aku memberinya
kebijaksanaan untuk mengetahui bahwa
seorang suami yang baik takkan pernah
menyakiti isterinya, tetapi kadang
menguji kekuatannya dan ketetapan
hatinya untuk berada disisi suaminya
tanpa ragu"

"Dan akhirnya, Aku
memberinya air mata untuk dititiskan dan
ini adalah khusus miliknya untuk
digunakan bilapun ia perlukan."

"Kau tahu;kecantikan
seorang wanita bukanlah dari pakaian
yang dikenakannya, susuk yang ia
tampilkan, atau bagaimana ia menyisir
rambutnya."

"Kecantikan seorang
wanita harus dilihat dari matanya,
kerana itulah pintu hatinya.. Tempat
dimana cinta itu ada."



"Setiap Wanita itu Cantik"

Friday, July 9, 2010

Saat





Disaat kamu ingin melepaskan seseorang
ingatlah pada saat kamu ingin mendapatkannya

Disaat kamu mulai tidak mencintainya
ingatlah saat pertama kamu jatuh cinta padanya

Disaat kamu mulai bosan dengannya
ingatlah selalu saat terindah bersamanya

Disaat kamu ingin menduakannya
bayangkan jika dia selalu setia

Saat kamu ingin membohonginya
ingatlah disaat dia jujur padamu

Maka kamu akan merasakan arti dia untukmu
Jangan sampai disaat dia sudah tidak disisimu,
Kamu baru menyadari semua arti dirinya untukmu

Yang indah hanya sementara
Yang abadi adalah kenangan
Yang ikhlas hanya dari hati
Yang tulus hanya dari sanubari

Tidak mudah mencari yang hilang
Tidak mudah mengejar impian

Namun yg lebih susah mempertahankan yg ada
Karena walaupun tergenggam bisa terlepas juga
Ingatlah pada pepatah, "Jika kamu tidak memiliki apa yang kamu sukai, maka sukailah apa yang kamu miliki saat ini"

Belajar menerima apa adanya dan berpikir positif
Hidup bagaikan mimpi, seindah apapun,
begitu bangun semuanya sirna tak berbekas
Rumah mewah bagai istana, harta benda yang tak terhitung, kedudukan, dan jabatan yg luar biasa, namun..

Ketika nafas terakhir tiba, sebatang jarum pun tak bisa dibawa pergi
Sehelai benang pun tak bisa dimiliki
Apalagi yang mau diperebutkan
Apalagi yang mau disombongkan

Maka jalanilah hidup ini dengan keinsafan nurani
Jangan terlalu perhitungan
Jangan hanya mau menang sendiri
Jangan suka sakiti sesama apalagi terhadap mereka yang berjasa bagi kita
Belajarlah tiada hari tanpa kasih
Selalu berlapang dada dan mengalah
Hidup ceria, bebas leluasa

Tak ada yang tak bisa di ikhlaskan
Tak ada sakit hati yang tak bisa dimaafkan
Tak ada dendam yang tak bisa terhapus.




Note: taken from someone..
like it so much!!

OST Janji Kekasih

Afgan – PadaMu Ku Bersujud



Afgan – PadaMu Ku Bersujud dipersembahkan oleh LirikLaguku.Net



Ku menatap dalam kelam
Tiada yang bisa ku lihat
selain hanya nama-Mu Ya Allah

*
Esok ataukah nanti
Ampuni semua salahku
Lindungi aku dari segala fitnah

Reff:
Kau tempatku meminta
Kau beriku bahagia
Jadikan aku selamanya
Hamba-Mu yang slalu bertakwa

Ampuniku Ya Allah
Yang sering melupakan-Mu
Saat Kau limpahkan karunia-Mu
Dalam sunyi aku bersujud

Back to *, Reff
repeat reff

pada-MU



LIRIK LAGU OST LAGENDA BUDAK SETAN - BILA CINTA - FILIANTI VLEE

Bila cinta kini
Tak lagi bermakna
Yang ku rasa kini
Hanyalah nestapa
Ditinggalkan cinta masa lalu

Dulu kau tawarkan
Manisnya janjimu
Yang ku sambut itu
Dengan segenap hatiku
Hingga engkau pergi
Tinggalkanku

Hilangnya cintamu
Menusuk hatiku
Hinggaku memilih
Cinta yang fana

Perginya dirimu
merobek jantungku
Hingga ku terjatuh
Dalam harapan

Hilangnya cintamu
Menusuk hatiku
Hingga ku terjatuh

Dalam harapan

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Office Politics




Office Politics, by definition is the use of a persons's individual or assigned power within an organisation for the purpose of obtaining advantages beyond one's legitimate authority. These advantages may include access to tangible assets or intangible benefits such as status or pseudo-authority to influence the behaviour of others.

Simply put, office politics is the management of people by intentionally manipulating, either positively or negatively an outcome to favour one's own or both parties' benefit. And don't be mistaken, it doesn't just happen in big corporations, office politics can take place n companies of any size-even one that only has three staff.


DIRTY POLITICS

Negative or destructive office politics generally begins in an organisation that is not firmly anchored in its core values and guiding principles. When the vision, mission and strategic objectives of a company are vague, it invites personal interpretation. Ambiguosly written job descriptions unclear roles, overlapping or gaps in responsibilities, incompetent staff, or lack of personal accountability and integrity are the perfect ingredients for negative office politics.


The outcome of negative office politics is a weakened management structure, which allows under-performing individuals to capitalise on the lack of controls and systems for personal gain.

Studies have shown that negative office politics can reduce productivity,diminish trust levels, affect morale and increase internal conflict. It drains employees' energy, wastes the organization's resources causes merit to go unrewarded results in loss of valuable talent and in the worst case scenario drives away business opportunities.

If not rectified decisively, office politics can spread in an organisation and begin a vicious cycle like cancer briging disastrous consequences to both the organisation and its employees.

Examples of negative office politics include:

* Back stabbing and lack team spirit
* Pushing the blame on to others and finger pointing
* Lack of personal integrity and accountability
* Favouritism and preferences based on personality
* Accomodating individuals who do not deliver results



THE POWER FOR GOOD

On the flip side, office politics can also be positive force in the workplace. For instance, it can be unblock barriers to change produce greater organisational cohesion and create greater buy in yo key projects.

Positive or constructive office politics doesn't happen by chance. It is encouraged through principled and authentic leadership, corporate cultural factors. such as congruence between corporate values&management practice, transparency, thriving in an environment in which ethical & honest behaviour is rewarded and self-serving political behaviour is penalised.

Whenever there is ambiguity or change that is not clearly understood or accepted that is not clearly understood or accepted by the organisation, the management must step in quickly and communicate effectively to clear the air

It also help it staff have self-awareness, aptitude, the right attitude, technical competence to deliver results , awareness of the organisational and political landscape, personal authenticity, honesty, integrity, relationship-building skills to create win-win outcomes, sound analytical skills and an ability to interpret the formal, informal, internal and external power plays.

Examples of positive office politics:

✿ Networking and building trust through strategic alliances

✿ Nurturing reliable, dependable, mutually-beneficial working relationships with individuals or groups within and outside the organisation through both formal and informal channels

✿ Working with individuals aligned to the same set of principles and values and focused on delivering results based on merit and performance

✿ Each individual is fully accountable and personally responsible for his/her own results

✿ Each ind is fully accountable and personally responsible for his/her own results

✿ All parties involved in the relationship think win-win and believe in teamwork

✿Organisational resources are maximised and optimised to deliver higher levels of efficiency and effectiveness


Office politic is a part of corporate life, so there is no escaping it even if you are one of the top management. In order to stay alive in the corporate politics arena u must be true to urself, strive to achieve personal authenticity and have long term view of where u want to be. Here are some tips to help you manoeuvre the choppy waters.


1. Be amiable

The easiest way to avoid probs is to get along with everyone. U can be pleasant and profesional, but be assertive when necessary. This also means staying clear of choosing sides in any politicking

2. Maintain professionalism

Don't allow emotions to get the better of u in situations of conflict or disagreement. Seek to understand the reason for the other party's comments or actions, clarify the issues and try to find a resolution. Focus on the issues, not the person.

3. Look at the both sides

Think in terms of "How can we both win in this situation?". Strive to seek a resolution that is acceptable and beneficial to both parties. This will ensure that everyone is truly committed to agreed solution.

4. Be diplomatic

Assert and express ur views in a respectful and tactful manner. In our culture, communicating in a tactful committed and diplomatic way can make a lot of difference.

5. Stay away from gossip

Gossipping only drains ur energy and wastes valuable time, which u can use to achieve better things. Just concentrate on ur job and let ur work and actions do the talking.

6. Document things

Document something that was verbally agreed on can be a life - saver. It can prevent any political dispute, like "he said........u said..." Documentation is also effective way of highlighting ur own accomplishments, which can help u during ur performance evaluation.

Source: Kevin Tan,Graduan 2010





notes:Fren...
this entry is special for u..
think carefully ok!..jgn lupe pd Allah..solat ISTIKHARAH itu penting..
some people might think u make some rush decisions but whatever ur decisions i will support u..love u fren..♥ ♥ ♥

Monday, July 5, 2010

High-Bun Style of Hijab




Its a new style of hijab that many Muslims Malaysian women wearing that style of hijab but please read the hadith related >>>



Quote::
“ akan muncul dalam kalangan umatku di akhir zaman, kaum lelaki yang menunggang sambil duduk di atas pelana, lalu mereka turun di depan pintu-pintu masjid. Wanita-wanita mereka( isteri mereka atau anak perempuan), berpakaian tetapi seperti bertelanjang ( nipis&ketat). Di atas kepala mereka pula(wanita) terdapat bonggolan (sanggul atau tocang) seperti bonggol unta yang lemah gemalai. Oleh itu laknatlah mereka semua. Sesungguhnya mereka adalah wanita-wanita yang terlaknat”- hadith riwayat Ahmad, jil.2, ms. 223.

Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda:

Quote::
“dua golongan penghuni neraka yang mana aku sendiri belum pernah melihat keadaan mereka didunia: golongan yang membawa cemeti seperti seekor lembu lalu menggunakannya untuk memukul manusia dan juga kaum wanita yang berpakaian seperti bertelanjang, menggoyangkan badan dan berlenggang-lenggok, kepala mereka ada suatu seperti bonggol di kepala unta yang bergoyang-goyang. Mereka tentu tidak akan memasuki syurga atau mencium baunya sedangkan bau syurga itu dapat dihidu dari jarak perjalanan begitu dan begini”

–hadith riwayat Muslim. Hadith no 212-


note: selagi the bun x melebihi paras kepala adalah halal..

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Nobody





WONDER GIRLS: Nobody


You Know I still Love You Baby.
And it will never change. (Saranghae)

I want nobody nobody But You, I want nobody nobody But You
How can I be with another, I don't want any other
I want nobody nobody nobody nobody


Why are you trying to, to make me leave ya
I know what you're thinking
Baby why aren't you listening
How can I just
Just love someone else and
Forget you completely
When I know you still love me

Telling me you're not good enough
My life with you is just too tough
You know it's not right so
Just stop and come back boy
How can this be
When we were meant to be

I want nobody nobody But You, I want nobody nobody But You
How can I be with another, I don't want any other
I want nobody nobody nobody nobody

I want nobody nobody But You, I want nobody nobody But You
How can I be with another, I don't want any other
I want nobody nobody nobody nobody

Why can't we just, just be like this
Cause it's you that I need and nothing else until the end
Who else can ever make me feel the way I
I feel when I'm with you, no one will ever do

Telling me you're not good enough
My life with you is just too tough
You know me enough so
You know what I need boy
Right next to you is where I need to be.

I want nobody nobody But You, I want nobody nobody But You
How can I be with another, I don't want any other
I want nobody nobody nobody nobody

I want nobody nobody But You, I want nobody nobody But You
How can I be with another, I don't want any other
I want nobody nobody nobody nobody

I don't want no body, body
I don't want no body, body

Honey you know it's you that I want, it's you that I need
Why can't you see~

I want nobody nobody But You, I want nobody nobody But You
How can I be with another, I don't want any other
I want nobody nobody nobody nobody (2x)

Back to the days when we were so young and wild and free
Nothing else matters other than you and me
So tell me why can't it be
Please let me live my life my way
Why do you push me away
I don't want nobody nobody nobody nobody but you.





note: miss my friends (smkdpb:tcsjb:uitmcs:uitmpp)
miss my students life..
miss puncak perdana..
miss UiTM!

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Veni..Vedi..Vici!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Salam..

Hye everyone!!!huhu..

Yeah...On 27 June 2010 we came...we saw n we conquered!!!!!!!!haha..
On that day, a group of us had visited The Southern Most Tip of Mainland Asia, also known as Tanjung Piai (Piai Cape).

FYI, the entrance fee is RM5.00 for Malaysian and RM10.00 for foreign visitor. The car parking fee is RM3.00 per car. But we are only paid it for only RM3 bcoz we get the price for students. haha!!! padahal 2 org jea students.hehe..





We are so0 lucky bcoz even thought it was a Sunday, there are not many visitor around when we were there. So it was quite free to move around and enjoy the flora and fauna there. We are so0 excited to shoot all the surrounding and of course we are also busy to posing all the trail in the National Park.

We were really happy and fortunate on that day's weather, because if rain...it spoiled our whole trip to the TIP.huhu... Sbb if hjn xdpt la blk.. just only the trail to the jetty have provided by a roof.. In the National Park, there have a four trails and we had finished to walking from one trail to the another trail.. njoy sesangat...huhu












Along the way, I felt peaceful and calm...I LoVe the greenery surround us! I'm fall in love with the flora and fauna..... I'm feel soo fresh!!

How i wish i will be there again some day..

For more info about Tanjung Piai, please visit Johor National Park: Tanjung Piai


Bye2.. Have a nice day..

Salam..